Welcome to the “Date Smarter. Sexier.” Podcast
Coming Soon to Season Six of the Date Smarter. Sexier. Podcast – also known as the season of Cocks and Cocktails.
This season, we’re turning the spotlight on men—how to date them, understand them, and (let’s be honest) survive them. Cocks and Cocktails isn’t just a cheeky name—it’s our theme for diving deep into the masculine mindset while sipping something strong (whiskey, obviously). It’s bold, playful, and packed with truth. We’re getting real about what it’s like to date men in today’s world and how to communicate with them without losing your cool—or your standards.
I’m your host, Andrea LaRosa, and this season I’m mixing things up. You’ll still hear solo episodes with bite-sized insights straight from the expert (that’s me), but you’ll also meet an incredible lineup of guest cohosts—women who are currently in the dating trenches—and expert guests who bring the science, the psychology, and the sass to the table.
We’ll cover everything from decoding male communication styles and commitment fears to those “is it me or is he just emotionally unavailable?” moments. Expect hot takes, hilarious confessions, and practical tools to help you stop settling, start thriving, and date smarter.
So pour yourself a glass of something delicious, hit play, and join the conversation. This is Date Smarter Sexier—where dating men finally starts to make a little more sense.
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Past Seasons
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Season 2:
Sex Unfiltered
Season 1:
Love Unfiltered
Season 4:
Relationships Unfiltered
Season 3:
Dating Unfiltered
S2 Ep 18: “Sexual Fetishes Galore”
Season 2 Episode 18: “Sexual Fetishes Galore”
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", relationship and dating coach Andrea LaRosa (www.andrealarosacoaching.com) discusses the many, many sexual fetishes that exist with her co-host and producer, Canaan Dewey (www.canaandewey.com).
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S2 Ep 17: “Love Is Blind” - The Sexy Analysis
Season 2 Episode 17: “Love Is Blind” - The Sexy Analysis
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", relationship and dating coach Andrea LaRosa (www.andrealarosacoaching.com) discusses season two of Netflix dating reality show "LOVE IS BLIND" and the affect is has on modern dating expectations with her co-host and producer, Canaan Dewey (www.canaandewey.com).
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S2 Ep 16: “How Does Hook-up Culture Affect Your Sex Life?” (w/ Gabby)
Season 2 Episode 16: “How Does Hook-up Culture Affect Your Sex Life?” (w/ Gabby)
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", relationship and dating coach Andrea LaRosa (www.andrealarosacoaching.com) discusses the affects of hook-up culture on dating and relationships with her co-host and producer, Canaan (www.canaandewey.com) and SPECIAL GUEST Gabrielle Rivera Valdón.
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S2 Ep 15: “Body Count and Sex Secrets”
Season 2 Episode 15: “How Does Hook-up Culture Affect Your Sex Life?” (w/ Gabby)
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", relationship and dating coach Andrea LaRosa (www.andrealarosacoaching.com) discusses talking about your sexual secrets with partners with her co-host and producer, Canaan (www.canaandewey.com).
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S2 Ep 14: “Sex, Sex, and More Sex (Did you expect something else?!?)”
Season 2 Episode 14: “Sex, Sex, and More Sex (Did you expect something else?!?)”
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", relationship and dating coach Andrea LaRosa (www.andrealarosacoaching.com) discusses sex, sex and more about sex with her co-host and producer, Canaan (www.canaandewey.com).
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S2 Ep 13: “A Thesis About Penis” (w/ Dr. Nathan)
Season 2 Episode 13: “A Thesis About Penis” (w/ Dr. Nathan)
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", relationship and dating coach Andrea LaRosa (www.andrealarosacoaching.com) discusses every mans favorite topic, his penis and the evolution of the penis with her co-host and producer, Canaan (www.canaan.one) and SPECIAL GUEST Dr. Nathan.
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S2 Ep 12: “Annual Valentine’s Day SEXpectations”
Season 2 Episode 12: “Annual Valentine’s Day SEXpectations”
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", relationship and dating coach Andrea LaRosa (www.andrealarosacoaching.com) discusses the love and hate relationship with the worldwide holiday about love and the expectations surrounding February 14th with her co-host and producer, Canaan (canaan.one).
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S2 Ep 11: “Rebound Sex With An Ex?!?”
Season 2 Episode 11: “Rebound Sex With An Ex?!?”
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", relationship and dating coach Andrea LaRosa (www.andrealarosacoaching.com) discusses the good and bad of having sex with an ex-lover with her co-host and producer, Canaan (canaan.one).
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S2 Ep 10: “Answering Your Questions About Sex”
Season 2 Episode 10: “Answering Your Questions About Sex”
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", relationship and dating coach Andrea LaRosa (www.datesmartersexier.com) answers your questions sent via DM, Facebook Group and Email about this seasons main topic, sex with her co-host and producer, Canaan (www.canaandewey.com).
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S2 Ep 9: “Straight Men Don’t Talk: How Men Educate Themselves About Sex.” (w/ Jefferi)
Season 2 Episode 9: “Straight Men Don’t Talk: How Men Educate Themselves About Sex.” (w/ Jefferi)
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", relationship and dating coach Andrea LaRosa (www.andrealarosacoaching.com) discusses the myth that straight men don't talk with her co-host and producer, Canaan (www.canaan.one) and SPECIAL GUEST, Jefferi Moreno-Estrada.
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S2 Ep 8: “The Unsexy Stereotypes We Create”
Season 2 Episode 8: “The Unsexy Stereotypes We Create”
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", relationship and dating coach Andrea LaRosa (www.andrealarosacoaching.com) discusses the unsexy stereotypes we as humans make up that keep us from connecting with her co-host and producer, Canaan (www.canaan.one).
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S2 Ep 7: “Sex Fantasies” (w/ Gabby)
Season 2 Episode 7: “Sex Fantasies” (w/ Gabby)
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", relationship and dating coach Andrea LaRosa (www.andrealarosacoaching.com) discusses the many different sexual fantasies and desires we all could have with her co-host and producer, Canaan (canaandewey.com) and SPECIAL GUEST Gabrielle Rivera Valdón
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S2 Ep 6: “The Many Ways to Get Off During Sex”
Season 2 Episode 6: “The Many Ways to Get Off During Sex”
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", relationship and dating coach Andrea LaRosa (www.andrealarosacoaching.com) discusses the many ways one can get off (have an orgasm) during sex with her co-host and producer, Canaan (canaan.one).
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S2 Ep 2: “Is Your Sex Life Basic?”
Season 2 Episode 2: “Is Your Sex Life Basic?”
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", relationship and dating coach Andrea LaRosa (www.andrealarosacoaching.com) discusses the symptoms of a basic sex life with her co-host and producer, Canaan (canaan.one)
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S2 Ep 3: “Is Your Sex Life Basic?” Part 2
Season 2 Episode 2: “Is Your Sex Life Basic?”
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", relationship and dating coach Andrea LaRosa (www.andrealarosacoaching.com) discusses the symptoms of a basic sex life with her co-host and producer, Canaan (canaan.one)
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S2 Ep 4: “Maintaining Lust for Your Lover… Sexual Retention in Your L.T.R.”
Season 2 Episode 4: “Maintaining Lust for Your Lover… Sexual Retention in Your L.T.R.”
In episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", relationship and dating coach Andrea LaRosa (www.andrealarosacoaching.com) discusses how to maintain a spark in your sex life when in a long term relationship with her co-host and producer, Canaan (www.canaan.one).
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S2 Ep 5: “Sex Toys & Rock and Roll” (w/ Sheila Mae)
Season 2 Episode 5: “Sex Toys & Rock and Roll” (w/ Sheila Mae)
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", relationship and dating coach Andrea LaRosa (www.andrealarosacoaching.com) discusses embracing sex toys and pleasure products during sex to liven up the bedroom with her co-host and producer, Canaan (canaan.one) and SPECIAL GUEST Pure Romance Senior Director, Sheila Mae Fox [https://prbysheilafox.commentsold.com].
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S1 FINALE: “COVID, Love & Depression”
S1 FINALE: “COVID, Love & Depression”
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", relationship and dating coach Andrea LaRosa (www.andrealarosacoaching.com) discusses love, depression and the lasting affect of living during a pandemic with co-host and producer, Canaan (www.canaan.one) and SPECIAL GUEST Sarah Beth Bertenthal.
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Holidate Special: From Live Facebook Recording Halloween Weekend 2021
Holidate Special: From Live Facebook Recording Halloween Weekend 2021
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", relationship and dating coach Andrea LaRosa (www.andrealarosacoaching.com) discusses the dark side of love, dating, relationships and holiday season myths with co-host and producer, Canaan (www.canaan.one). If you or someone you know is struggling with suicidal thoughts please contact your local hotline or call 1-800-273-8255 for help.
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S2 PREMIER: “SEX Addictions” (w/ Erika)
Season 2 PREMIER: “SEX Addictions” (w/ Erika)
In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", relationship and dating coach Andrea LaRosa (www.andrealarosacoaching.com) discusses sex addictions with her co-host and producer, Canaan (canaan.one) and SPECIAL GUEST, Erika Miley MED, LMHC (MentalandSexualHealth.com)
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