🚨 Important Update – Big Changes Are Underway!

Date Smarter Matchmaking has officially been acquired by Match by Julia!

We’re excited about this next chapter and are confident that this transition will be a smooth one. Over the next few months, we’ll be updating the website to reflect this change — so please pardon any outdated info you may come across.

If you’re already a client, database member, or newsletter subscriber — we’ve got you covered. Just hang tight and read the FAQs below for details.

If you have any immediate questions, feel free to reach out directly.

Thank you for your continued trust and patience during this transition!

FAQs for Matchmaking

  • If you've completed your services with Date Smarter Matchmaking, you will now be eligible to work with Julia. Julia charges a fee to be in her matchmaking database, but she has graciously offered to keep Andrea's former free database members on file for 6 months. If you’d like to continue being considered for matches, we strongly recommend joining Julia’s paid database to increase your chances.

  • If you're a current matchmaking client under contract, don’t worry — your services are still active and will continue without interruption. Andrea will continue honoring your existing agreement and actively working on your behalf during the transition.

    As an added bonus, you may also be introduced to Julia so she can get to know you personally and support your match search. That means you’ll have both Andrea and Julia working together to find your ideal match — combining years of experience, double the insight, and access to a wider network.

    This collaboration is designed to give you even more value during this exciting transition. You’ll be hearing from us soon with your next steps!

  • Yes, if you were part of Andrea’s database or a completed client, your information will be transferred to Match by Julia. However, in order to provide the most accurate and personalized matchmaking experience, Julia may ask you to update your profile information or complete a new intake form.

    This ensures your preferences, lifestyle, and relationship goals are current — and gives Julia a chance to get to know you a bit better. Keep an eye on your inbox for next steps and instructions!

  • The free database will no longer be used for active matchmaking services after the transition. If you wish to stay in consideration, you’ll need to upgrade to Julia’s paid database at $500/year or opt into her one-time lifetime listing option.

  • Yes! While Andrea is no longer matchmaking, she is continuing to offer coaching and consulting. If you’re navigating dating, relationships, or communication challenges, she’s still available for private coaching. You can book with her here.

  • Julia is a seasoned matchmaker with a personalized approach and a strong network. You can learn more about her services and database by visiting matchbyjulia.com.

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